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Him; Last night the lovely Em and I both read this dreadful piece of body-shaming, sex-hating clickbait from Metro blogger Hannah Gale, and came to the same basic conclusion: WTF?? It’s one thing to offer reassurance that ‘hey, just because … Continue reading

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I had almost decided not to write about the ~ Magaluf scandal; you all know my thoughts on slut shaming and how female sexuality is treated by the media by now (fuck that bullshit and very badly by way of … Continue reading

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In a society where sex sells and you’re as likely to find porn in someone’s internet history as frantic 4am searches for a Dominos still open, you’d be forgiven for thinking that we were all having hot sex, all the … Continue reading

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Guess who’s back, back again? Sorry for the hiatus in between these posts but we have an inbox full of questions and time on our side now so we are here for you. This week, Mungle and I are tackling … Continue reading

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Confident women can be scary; society is heteronormative and relies on gender codes and internalised behaviour and expectations to keep us conforming to specific gender norms. When we stick to our ‘acceptable’ behaviour list, things are easy and society knows … Continue reading

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Virginity; ‘A person who has never had sexual intercourse.’ Wait, what? That’s it? That is the whole definition of the concept on which we base our ideas of purity, virtue and ‘what good girls do’ on?  Awesome. Sigh. ‘Virginity’ is bullshit. The … Continue reading

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‘Rape culture, loool’ – this is a comment someone tweeted to me recently; completely out of the blue, unprovoked and just because he felt entitled to throw himself into my mentions and start calling women ‘sluts’ and telling me that … Continue reading

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I LOVED the responses this feature got last time; so many of you tweeted me, emailed or sent me a DM with a question to be answered. This week, Mungle and I are taking on anal sex, vibrators, first time … Continue reading

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I LOVE collab posts – Through blogging and twitter, I’ve made some amazing friends and getting the chance to write with people I admire is definitely one of the best parts of anygirlfriday. Today I am sharing space with Exhibit … Continue reading

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‘Fingering’ is such an unpleasant word for something so great, something so quick to get you off. Fingering seems to be a nostalgic fad, something we left in the 90s, along with our crush on Zack Morris and those headbands … Continue reading

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Writing about sex and feminism means my inbox is often full of questions (and dodgy propositions..) from minxes asking for advice. With that in mind, and a hand from one of my favourite babes, this regular feature was born. Welcome … Continue reading

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‘So you would just kill my kids then, is that it?’ This is a question someone asked me when I said that I was pro choice. Because obviously, my belief that women should be autonomous beings with the right to … Continue reading

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Oh, the female orgasm. There is so much mystery surrounding it that I’m surprised we haven’t seen a mass exodus of men thinking ‘fuck this’ and migrating to Buddhist monasteries. Statistically, only 25% of women can orgasm through vaginal intercourse … Continue reading

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Given how incredibly gendered sexual violence is, it’s easy to slip into unfair and damaging assumptions when discussing it; women as victims: men as perpetrators. Rape, and sexual assault are definitely feminist issues. They are humanist issues. We should all … Continue reading

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Last night I watched Iron Man 2, (having a bit of a Marvel moment) and despite RDJ’s sarcastic prowess and the awesome-ness of Mickey Rourke’s Russian accent and hair, something really pissed me off; the way in which the women … Continue reading

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