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I LOVE collab posts – Through blogging and twitter, I’ve made some amazing friends and getting the chance to write with people I admire is definitely one of the best parts of anygirlfriday. Today I am sharing space with Exhibit … Continue reading

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‘Fingering’ is such an unpleasant word for something so great, something so quick to get you off. Fingering seems to be a nostalgic fad, something we left in the 90s, along with our crush on Zack Morris and those headbands … Continue reading

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Writing about sex and feminism means my inbox is often full of questions (and dodgy propositions..) from minxes asking for advice. With that in mind, and a hand from one of my favourite babes, this regular feature was born. Welcome … Continue reading

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‘So you would just kill my kids then, is that it?’ This is a question someone asked me when I said that I was pro choice. Because obviously, my belief that women should be autonomous beings with the right to … Continue reading

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Oh, the female orgasm. There is so much mystery surrounding it that I’m surprised we haven’t seen a mass exodus of men thinking ‘fuck this’ and migrating to Buddhist monasteries. Statistically, only 25% of women can orgasm through vaginal intercourse … Continue reading

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Given how incredibly gendered sexual violence is, it’s easy to slip into unfair and damaging assumptions when discussing it; women as victims: men as perpetrators. Rape, and sexual assault are definitely feminist issues. They are humanist issues. We should all … Continue reading

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Last night I watched Iron Man 2, (having a bit of a Marvel moment) and despite RDJ’s sarcastic prowess and the awesome-ness of Mickey Rourke’s Russian accent and hair, something really pissed me off; the way in which the women … Continue reading

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Somewhere along the line, in between leg warmers and The Spice Girls, blow jobs stopped being taboo. We now have a whole generation of people who see oral sex as nicely nestled in between a hand job and doggy style. … Continue reading

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‘I don’t think I liked that very much’ said Natalia after Adam had made her awkwardly walk on all fours across his apartment, gone down on her from behind without her permission and then finished up all over her chest. … Continue reading

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I have this ‘friend’, who, one night at university ended up in bed with a long haired Philosophy student who, despite his best efforts just couldn’t finish. He tried, and tried (and tried) – maybe it was the four £2 … Continue reading

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Alanis Morissette once sang  ‘my brothers never went blind for what they did, but I may as well have’ which pretty much sums up some attitudes towards female masturbation. Men are sexual, it’s alright for them to spend hours locked away … Continue reading

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It used to be tits that got the boys hot under the collar. Magazines would be full of tips to maximise your cleavage – sweep some bronzer in between your breasts to make them look fuller, weight exercises to boost … Continue reading

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  Someone recently sent me a message about body shaming. Great, I thought! I love hearing other people’s opinions about topics I’m passionate about! However, this person suggested that because I was body confident, it was somehow ‘unfair’ and ‘inappropriate’ … Continue reading

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I love this video so, so much. It is frustrating that it took subverting traditional sexism and making it accessible to get sexism noticed but it’s brilliant. It’s clever, funny and really hits home the subtle, and brick to the … Continue reading

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When I told my friend that I was writing about pubic hair today, she said ‘babe, no. It’s the last frontier.’ It got me thinking, is our down there ‘do still so taboo? 80’s big ‘fro, nineties landing strip, noughties … Continue reading

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